there comes a point in time in your life when you start speaking to your parents with a different tone. you are older, more mature, and can discuss things in a civilized manner. the only thing is, if you are rude to me, do not expect me to take it anymore. if i want to say something, i will say it. there comes a point where the respect needs to come from both ends. otherwise, you will never be able to get anywhere as adults.
